There are many times in life when we literally think or say those immortal words…
“Why is this happening to me?”
(OK, so it might be more of a wail or even a scream that delivers these words, but whatever our method of delivery, it never feels good to say them, does it?)
In fact, I’d go so far as to say this phrase is probably used more widely than most and more frequently than most… We really are great at defaulting into victim mode, aren’t we 😉
Joking aside, because oftentimes it feels like FAR from a laughing matter, it became clear to me through coaching so many women (especially those in my High Vibrational Living 101 group) that this whole concept of something happening TO us and the bigger question as to WHY, was coming up over and over again.
“What am I not doing?” women would ask.
“What am I doing wrong?”
“Should I be meditating more?”
“Am I a bad person? Is this karma?”
“What did I overlook?”
As you can see, it’s easy to default into self-blame and self-admonishment at the drop of a hat, but that’s not what this is about.
I’m a firm believer that that Universe is always working for our (and everyone’s) highest good.
It’s not always easy to see it, and especially not to feel it, but when we settle into the true reality of a situation, the reasons for why something is happening soon become clear.
Because this question was coming up for so many women so frequently, I took all the different parts of my coaching responses to them and created a one-stop process.
This process comes in the form of a simple document (a mini workbook) that you can print out or type directly into, and use any time you find yourself asking that exact same question:
Why is this happening to me?
Since I created this three months ago, I have personally used this process to assist me with money stuff, a challenging business situation and an illness. You can literally use it for ANY situation where you find yourself saying or thinking those same words. Even though I created it, I too need the robustness and simplicity of this process to get me through those times when I am really “in it” feeling as if the Universe/life is actually conspiring against me.
There’s also a powerful accompanying audio if you’d like to be walked through the process by me, with additional commentary and tips.
Whichever way you choose to interact with it, I believe that EVERYONE should have access to this powerful process.
You go in with your annoying/frustrating/hideous issue, and then come out the other side fully understanding WHY it happened and what your next steps are, whatever your situation may be.
You can get your copy of this process immediately, in seconds, right here.
Once you’ve downloaded it and worked through it, I’d love you to come back to this page and share with other readers in the comments section exactly how you found it.
This is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself and others – the peace that comes from true understanding, and having a clear, doable plan to move beyond the pain – so let’s spread the word and inspire each other to use this whenever those stressful six words make an appearance to any degree.
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